Women are still going to prefer tall, successful men.
All we can do is tackle this confidently, and not get too thrown by the many bumps in the road.
The good news, Nicci, is that all of the answers can be derived from the same exact technique – flipping things over to consider the other person’s point of view.
Let’s start with you, because a) you wrote me the note, and b) you’re an online dating anomaly – an honest size 10 who doesn’t claim to be athletic and toned.
Body type shouldn’t be a dating dealbreaker — keep an open-mind and explore all your options.
But to all the curvy daters out there, we suggest giving the Asian man who viewed your profile a second look.
The man who wants you is going to WANT a curvy girl.
No point in getting bent out of shape about the ones who prefer skinny chicks, y’know?
However, after talking to your male co-workers and observing that you’re not being contacted, you have to be asking yourself – is it REALLY in my best interests to tell the truth if 95% of guys are going to dismiss me for doing so?
This is the online dating dilemma that faces MILLIONS of people each day.
And when the slightly overweight woman shows up on a date with a man who was expecting “athletic”, both parties are in for a night of disappointment. First of all, I think that’s a problem that’s more in your head than in reality. Still, no matter how much rebranding we do, life is still not going to be fair.