There was never any chance of reconciliation and I would never in a million years have returned to my ex.The marriage was over all but legally and we lived the opposite side of the country and we had no children.
since then I've had abusive messages off his wife on fb saying that they were back together and had been for a while, trying to work on their marriage, i was just the rebound girl and he never loved me or the kids...
he not only broke my heart but my kids hearts aswell, they've lost 2 father figures in their little short lives and its not fair on them if I do it all over again or fair on me...don't see the point in being with anyone if they're just going to make you false promises and end up ripping out your heart and soul when they make you fall for them, even knowing how hurt you've been before.
so no I wouldn't, I wouldn't even see someone who had a divorce I was separated for 4 years before I managed to get my divorce owing to my ex being pig headed.
I met my 2nd husband a year after separating and dated throughout that time.
He's fantastic and we wouldn't be together if he only wanted a single / divorced girl!!
Me too Vicky, me and husband were going to wait 2 years as it was cheaper and no kids were involved but I met my wonderful bf and I have filed for divorce (which is still taking for ever.) I would be more concerned about the internet dating, there are a lot of men that fill you with a lot of bull on those sites.
Hi After a lot of serious and repetative issues that I won't go into (too, too much) I told my ex that I would be leaving once I had got somewhere sorted (again finacial issues) just over a month later she told me she was pregant.
I told her that I still wanted her to have the baby and offered to stay until baby was born but I wwould still be moving out, mistake, yes I know.
the 2nd was a friend of a friend who was in the navy, was very wary of getting into the relationship with him due to the ex.