NOTE: You may need to alter your approach just slightly depending on which signs you see. The 7 signals I gave you today are really just the tip of the iceberg!
In fact, they are not even the best (or most important) signals to look for.
Instead women make themselves “available.” They put themselves in a position in which they can be noticed and easily approached.
She’s trying to make life easy for you to increase her odds. The right touches in the right places If you’re already getting to know each other, then you might see a girl naturally touch your hand, shoulder or chest.
If you see a girl come up next to you at a bar and order a drink, it may be more than just a coincidence. If you’ve just made a joke, she may playfully (and lightly) slap you.
Surely, if a girl was interested in you, you would know it. Well it turns out, according this study, a man’s brain just isn’t wired to see many of the subtle and unusual signals women send.
The NIMH study found that men confused romantic signals of interest with signals of friendship 70% of the time.
Once you see these signs, you’ll need to know what to do next to ensure everything goes smoothly. I know it might feel intimidating or scary to make a move on a girl, even when you’re pretty sure she’s interested – rejection is not a pretty thing and I’ve had some pretty bad rejections in my day.
That’s why I created a simple video demonstrating the to make sure a girl ends up yours once you’ve noticed she’s interested.If a girl’s not giving you the time of day, it’s easy to assume she’s just not that interested.But this is perhaps the single biggest mistake men make.If you’re engaged in a conversation, then the level of eye contact she keeps can show how interested she is. Smiling might sound obvious, but in my experience (and in the scientific study I mentioned), men tend to convince themselves a woman is only smiling because she’s “just being friendly.” One trick is to ask yourself: does this look like a real, genuine smile or like someone posing for a photo? If the smile is genuine, she will “smile with her eyes,” meaning you’ll see a crease at the edge of her eyes ever-so-slightly. She’s within an earshot or a shoulder tap In a busy place like a bar, club or party, a girl will put herself close to you if she’s interested.If she’s always looking around or at her phone, then it’s a sign she could be trying avoid a conversation with you. Women are much less likely to strike up a conversation than a man.Finally, women also sometimes touch you or bump into men “by accident” to get noticed in a crowded place like a bar or party. The “dance” signal Women use dancing as a big way to draw attention to themselves.