If you call constantly to “just check in” then the chances are he’ll feel smothered within a week and will lose interest or just assume you are a bit desperate.
If you don’t call, he’ll start to panic and think that you have a life that doesn’t revolve around him.
Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.
Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.
Take it easy and let him decide when he is ready to commit.
Now you’re armed with these tips you should be feeling a little more confident about embarking on the roller coaster ride that is the dating game but it’s worth remembering (and here’s the twist) that not all guys are the same.
Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start.
Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance.
Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your mates could be a little distracting on your date. Be confident Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy.
Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time. Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting your date decide where you go on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control.
But exactly how do you find out without asking him outright and getting a look like you’ve just asked him to marry you?
Figuring out what is going on in a guy’s mind in the first few weeks of dating would really help a woman feel more assured, knowing that she is in control of the situation.
A final note – Commitment scares the hell out of us.