We also want relationships–but only with the girls who are girlfriend material. Not the lapdog husband who hates his job while providing for you on hands and knees. That’s what the best, most attractive men strive for. The good provider guy, who just let’s you run the show. Women from countries like America, Canada, Britain, Ireland, Germany, and Australia. We hand you a spoon, and you help us build a castle. Men are attracted to, above all else…Your looks…That’s right. We respect that you take the time to look good for us, and for yourself. I went on a date with a girl and she insisted on challenging me on every level.“Are you going to drink another beer? The same goes for sayings like “I’ve never done this before” and “I’ll come up, but I’m not sleeping with you.”If you want to get sleep with us, but you’re not sure, just say, “I want to sleep with you, but not yet, because I’m not sure.” We can take it.
And you …I know you’re frustrated, and I can’t imagine just how frustrating this is for you.
People say it’s easier for women, and at least in my own experience, that’s true.
The skill set required to be have a “real relationship” is not the same skill set required to bed you. Why are men from these countries flocking to other countries in Asia, South America, and Eastern Europe to meet women when they have so many at home? A toned body and healthy weight: We’re not too concerned about height, but boy, are we into women with fit, shapely bodies. Wear low cut blouses, or anything that shows us your cleavage. Some guys love high heels, and I have to admit, they’re sexy when they push your butt up like that. He wasn’t so over the top, you started having normal conversations that didn’t involve tests, and teasing, and you still liked him. The seduction phase is not the same as relationship phase. I use a technique called “agree and amplify—or ignore.” I either agree with the statement, “I want to be as fat as Buddha! ” Or I ignore, by laughing and changing the subject. It shows you have standards and class, and increases our pleasure when we finally have you. If you don’t come to bed with us, let us know you had fun, and you’d like to see us again.
We don’t care about muscle, as long as you are not fat. In Se Asia, white girls like to wear baggy, ugly hippy pants; otherwise known as elephant pants. Personally I don’t mind skater shoes on a girl if she’s in her early twenties. Instead of telling you what we like, I will tell you what turns us off. We like submissive, easy going, simple women who answer our calls, reply to our texts, laugh at our jokes and sometimes tease us, just a little bit. Being witty and creative helps, but is not nearly as important as being agreeable and nice. Being nice, agreeable, and simple is the furthest thing from what works. But I never, ever, get upset, or qualify myself by apologizing: “Oh, but I’ll go to the gym tomorrow, if I have time (sad face.)A little bit of playful teasing is fine, and you do want to screen out guys who can’t take a joke. It’s just not fun or seductive when you act this way. If you’re not sure about that, then tell us that you like us, but you have to think about seeing us again. If you enjoyed this, let me know in the comments and I’ll write more posts for women.
I can’t speak for all men, but I’ve been involved in the men’s dating needs industry for almost ten years, and I’ve spoken to hundreds of men about their desires. Unfortunately, most women (besides my female readers) don’t take much time to explore their own psychology and understand their attraction triggers.
Ask a woman what she’s attracted to and she might say, “Kind,” or “Funny,” or “A good/real guy.”In her mind she will picture Ryan Gosling, or a celeb she finds physically attractive. If you would get off your phone and start reading, we could have some amazing, intelligent conversations. Plenty of meatheads in small logging communities all over the world. Many guys like sports and video games and politics and philosophy.And if you’re single in your thirties, you probably don’t want to learn. If you’re getting mad, that’s because you recognize the truth. For some reason, western women have been taught that an aloof, bitchy, challenging attitude is attractive to men. Just think back to every bad boy you’ve ever lusted after. Think back to that man who picked you up at a party, or the bookstore. It’s not game over, you just have to try a lot harder if you’re not genetically gifted. They’re invited to parties, they receive dozens of text messages from friends and suitors, and I feel they think this party will last. They spend hours in sloth, sitting on their smart phones. They lose they’re lustre, and suddenly, they hit the wall and they’re at the bottom of the attractive man’s list. So here’s my solution: If you’re young, learn how to become the most attractive woman so you can land the man you want while you have options. Maybe he wasn’t the rockstar good looking guy who you dreamed about, but he had energy. They don’t improve their minds, or work on their charm, and they party promiscuously telling themselves they’ll get married, have kids and settle down once they’re in their thirties. Educate yourself as to how you can use your powers for good. If you have curly hair that grows straight up, then grow a lot of it. Mostly, we just want you to be fit, with long flowing hair, big eyes, big boobs, shapely hips and long legs. Many men love asian women even though they have asian skin. Also, those girls seem to be more ‘feminine.’ Because the dating market is more competitive, they work harder on their charisma. Fit, positive, and slightly submissive yet confident girls. Develop a lifestyle and philosophy that good men find attractive and realize your time is limited. Does this mean women with short hair aren’t beautiful? But we prefer long hair and will be more attracted to a woman with this feature.“But it’s a pain in the ass! So is going out night after night, day after day, and being rejected by thousands of women, just to learn how to be a fun guy that pretty girls like to sleep with. We do this so that we are funnier, more charming, and better men. But why men go to Asia, South America, or Eastern Europe to meet women has little to do with their skin colour, and everything to do with their increased value with women who aren’t as entitled as western white girls. I know it feels like it’s happened for everyone else, even the known weirdos and self-professed sexist perverts.