For example, an African-American male friend of mine in high school once said that he loved his kids too much to have them come out with “nappy” hair like his own. There is a female doctor in the Ghanaian-American community who has multiple white-looking children and their fathers are unknown.
It is rumored that she has sex with random white men at truck stops in order to have light-skinned kids.
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When I asked him to refrain from using the phrase “black as sh**”, Richard replied that he did not mean it that way. I said “I love you” and reminded him that he was the most beautiful boy in his childhood.
Although I was 14 when he was born, people would sometimes ask if I was his mother when I babysat him. The pride of being perceived as the mother of such an adorable boy outweighed the stigma of teenage pregnancy.
I told him that I take it as a compliment when people say that my sons resemble him and that at the very least he should be open to marrying a black woman and to having a child that resembles him in hue and hair texture. But his interracial relationships should be based on genuine love, and not lack of appreciation of his own physical features as reflected in black women.
Seeing beauty in a black woman is seeing beauty in himself. Knowing that he has been called horrific racist names by white people in his suburban town, I told him that his beauty and humanity are self-evident, even if certain individuals and media images deny that.
As spiritual beings, we should find love and companionship with others, regardless of race, national origin etc.
I deeply care for my former and present white sister-in-laws.I told Richard that I didn’t care that he finds blonde women attractive, but I was very concerned that he does not find black women attractive.He was filled with teenage bravado and defensiveness.Next, I expressed that the weave joke was inappropriate, especially given the fact that out of the eleven adult black women at Thanksgiving dinner, eight donned hair that did not grow from their scalps.Hair is an accessory used by women of multiple races.These men promote a standard of beauty that dark-hued kinky haired black women can’t biologically attain, while mocking us in our attempts to halfway meet that standard through long straight-haired weaves and wigs.